Thank you for being so kind to our boy today. Wilson is nine years old and autistic, and these kinds of activities are not always possible for him, as crowded malls and long lines often lead to anxiety and sensory overload.
But today he spotted you on our favorite small family farm and patiently waited for his turn to see you up close.
He didn’t know how to answer when you asked what he would like for Christmas. Those kinds of questions are hard for him to find the words for. But as his mom, I can tell you it is this. These moments. You’re pure magic to him.
He doesn’t know about the latest games and toys for kids his age. He has never asked us for something like that. But he knows the magic of Christmas. And he celebrates it every day, beginning in October.
You listened as he scripted about his favorite holiday books and characters, and asked more questions that went unanswered.
He continued to stand in awe when his turn for a visit was over. He quietly watched you from afar, taking in your every move. You should know that he doesn’t usually do this. He’s always moving, spinning, jumping, and dancing onto the next thing.
I want you to know that your kindness & patience matters.
Not just to him.
But to a mom and dad who have waited a long time for these moments, too.
You probably already know all of this, but I think sometimes others forget. That the simple, little things might be really, very big things in someone else’s world.
Love Wilson’s mom