Visual Schedules are a GAME CHANGER!

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Adding more visual supports has been SO helpful for Wilson. This was something that took me awhile to come around to understanding that he needed because I thought he KNEW most all of these words.

It was incredible to see how much of a difference it made for him to SEE them, especially when it comes to scheduling and first/then scenarios.

I can say “put your shoes on” 50x but if he sees an image of shoes, car, then school- he is more likely to complete all those steps without a million prompts.

Now he puts his own magnets up when he wants something and can’t exactly get those needs across verbally. He’s even started drawing items he wants! (His sandwich 🤣- see video below!)

Checking events off as they are completed has been really helpful as well.

The magnets we’re using here are schKIDules ordered from Amazon, and some wallet sized photo prints we made of items more specific to Wilson, like preferred foods/activities, his school, therapists, our house etc.

I also included a screenshot of the Choiceworks app we use for schedules on the go. It’s great- you can use stock photos or photos from your camera roll.

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For special events, park visits, doc appointments and other outings we bring a small whiteboard so we can draw or create checklists on the fly!

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Give some of these a try and if you have questions don’t hesitate to ask- I wish I hadn’t waited so long to make some of these simple things more available for the whole family!

Click the images below to see Wilson using his visual supports!

To the Special Needs Mom on Mother’s Day

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I am thinking about you today.

I want you to know that everything you do matters.

When you crawl into bed at night, aching from your temples to your toes, know that you have done enough. There may have been no progress made with toileting, feeding therapy or communication today and that is okay.

Your child is safe and so loved.

The weight of hectic schedules, parent trainings, OT, PT and visits with every other MD in-between can feel suffocating.

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The research, the meltdowns, the battles over chicken nugget brands and clothing choices, repeating “first/then” all day long and the endless search for missing treasures can withdraw every ounce of patience from your soul.

The smeared feces, the eloping, the pica and other behaviors you watched your friend’s toddlers outgrow. Years later, they remain in your child.

Most days are exhausting and thankless and I want you to know that your child appreciates you, they need you, and they love you beyond measure.

You need to know that.

Your child may not be able to express this, some of you may have never even heard your child call you “Mom”.

But they know you are Mom.

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Your child is so grateful for all that you do and would be lost without you. Just as you would be lost without your sweet child.

I want you to know that you are not alone.

When your patience has been depleted.

When you’ve cried behind your sunglasses at a park as you watched your child’s differences come to light.

The loneliness you have felt from the long days spent with a child unable to read your emotions.

The difficult medical and educational decisions you struggle to make.

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Know that there are so many of us with you.

We have felt the lows and celebrated the victories, too. We know the fear and the worry you wrestle with daily, and the immense pride you feel over the slightest progress.

I want you to find hope.

Today let’s bask in achievements and forget about regressions.

Even if only for one day.

Let your hope be stronger than your fears. With so many unknowns in the future, know that it’s going to get better.

I know this because we will grow stronger.

We will continue to learn, to advocate, to protect and make certain our children know their worth and just how very much they are loved.

I am so thankful for this sisterhood of amazing mothers today and every day.

Have a very Happy Mother’s Day.